Posts Tagged ‘MFT3’

The Cost of Mental Health Care

Sunday, November 22nd, 2009

The New York Times has run two articles recently, “How to Find Mental Health Care When Money Is Tight” and “In Anxious Times, Medical Help for the Mind as Well as the Body” which ran 2 weeks ago. While I found many important and useful links and points of information, I was left wanting to clarify the points of cost and access.

Mental health practitioners are concerned first in helping people who want it. Yes, we are in this business to make a living, but part of the calling is also seeing that nobody goes without care when it’s needed. At MFT3 we have what is called a sliding scale fee structure. What that means is that we will reduce the rate to make sessions more accessible to a potential client. This policy is based on creating a relationship that is mutually satisfying; I don’t want a client coming in less frequently than therapeutically sustainable due to cost, I would rather take a smaller fee and create a better healing environment.

Of course, argument goes to the notion if someone is already in a depressed or anxious state, that discussing costs may not be a first thought or come naturally. I always discuss cost first over the phone but also check-in with the client as we move forward and adjust as necessary as situations change.

I have also developed a large and diverse network of collaborative professionals who are in every type of agency, and can refer to a no-cost practitioner if that best suits a client’s needs. I personally have never found the size of a fee having any impact – pro or con – on someone’s ability to be seen by a therapist. This notion flies in the face of the ethics of the field.

As we have been learning, not all insurance plans are created equally and the mere fact that someone has insurance does not ensure that they have good mental health coverage. Also, as jobs are lost so goes insurance in many instances. By having created a personal financial relationship separate from insurance via sliding scale, I find that clients are more apt to continue with sessions in the midst of job loss as a support through the depression associated with the loss, the work of finding a new job, supporting all family members through potential lifestyle changes, and so on.

My point is to always ask about cost, especially if it may be an extra stressor during an already tough time. As professionals, we are well aware and prepared to work with you in this matter. Yes, therapy will cost you money, but let us not underestimate the costs associated with not treating mental illness in a timely manner, too.

Please note that depression, particularly, is an isolating condition, and that getting out and finding a therapist is a very important step in breaking the solitary hold it can have on someone. If prescription medication is indicated, note too that some may take as long as 3 months to stabilize in your system, not a quick fix.

And always, if the need is critical, call 9-1-1 first.

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Girl Power!

Wednesday, November 18th, 2009

I recently learned about this amazing not-for-profit called “Girls on the Run“, it was introduced to me through the Ladies Who Launch community.

When something remarkable comes across your path, I believe it is important to share it with as many people as you can. Please enjoy! Watch, learn, and pass along as you see fit.

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Good enough for me!

Tuesday, November 10th, 2009

Sesame Street’s 40th Anniversary has opened up a lovely memory portal for those of my generation. It’s nice to see that some things never change.

Enjoy!

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Wishing You a Happy Halloween

Friday, October 30th, 2009

MFT3 would like to wish everyone a safe, fun and Happy Halloween!

Enjoy this “sweet” that won’t cause cavities!

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Silence Fuels Abuse

Tuesday, October 20th, 2009

Watch this wonderful interview of Mary Murphy on the Ellen DeGeneres Show earlier today. When victims speak, lives are saved.

Mary Murphy is a regular judge and choreographer on the Fox dance competition-reality show So You Think You Can Dance.

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October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

Tuesday, September 29th, 2009

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

MFT3 is kicking off Domestic Violence Awareness Month with education, information and conversation!

As promised, Katherine Allen made a return appearance on Nina Sutton‘s radio show, One Smart Mother, heard Tuesdays at 9a on WGCH-AM 1490 of Greenwich, CT (read about our first appearance here).  You can listen to the 30 minute interview in its entirety below (also available through this direct link to the MP3):

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Today’s topic was DV among the affluent and teen dating abuse, to launch DV Awareness Month. There is far too much information to squeeze into a half-hour radio show or this blog, so please look at the resources listed below and contact DVCC’s state-wide hotline at 1-888-774-2900 to ask about events and information in your hometown.

Domestic Violence can be stopped with conversations, education and collaboration.

As mentioned on the show, here is a link to the “Love Is Not Abuse” website, and some excerpts from the “Love Is Not Abuse” teen dating curriculum (LINA sample pages). The therapists of MFT3 are all able to present this program to your school, congregation or community; please contact us if you would like to learn more.

The book, “Not to People Like Us” by Susan Weitzman, PhD is a great resource regarding upscale abuse. One thing to mention is the payoff principle hidden in upscale abuse. A woman (typically) will continue to put up with abuse on the “slot machine” principle; I have taken so much, my payday is surely to come soon. She sees his assets and gains, often projecting them onto her children’s futures, so continues to take the abuse, hoping for the elusive payday in the end.

Some local events:

  • Weston DV Task Force Meeting: Friday, October 2, 9am, Weston Town Hall, open to any and all interested people.
  • Weston Awareness Day: Saturday, October 3, 9am-12 noon. Town Center. There will be an official Town Proclamation by Woody Bliss, Teen Task Force bake sale, Information table and Purple Ribbon display.
  • Westport Train Station Awareness Event: Thursday, October 8, 5:30am. Saugatuck train station will be where adult men and male teens will be handing out awareness materials during the morning commute, spearheaded by Westport Police Sargeant John Pitoniak.
  • Metanoia-Prevent Violence Against Women: UCONN, week of October 5-9.
  • On October 1 at 11:00 a.m., First Selectwoman Evonne Klein will give a Proclamation at the Darien Library declaring October as Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
  • Ninety-one purple ribbons are tied on the trees lining the downtown area and Noroton Heights.  The purple ribbons are a symbol of remembrance for the victims of domestic violence. During the fiscal year 2008/2009, there were 91 domestic disturbance calls to the Darien Police Department.
  • Posters highlighting the power and control tactics used by perpetrators of domestic abuse to control their victims will be displayed by local merchants in their storefront windows or within their store. Domestic violence is not about anger but power and control.
  • Ringing of church bells on October 1 at 12:00 p.m. The bells will ring 91 times for each call made to the Darien Police Department.
  • The classic film “Gaslight” will be featured at the Darien Library’s Friday Film Night on October 9.
  • “The Legal System’s Response to Domestic Violence” – Presentation by Nancy Dolinsky, Senior Assistant State’s Attorney and Ken Edwards, Jr., an Inspector in the CT Chief State’s Attorney’s Office, Specialized Domestic Violence Unit – October 14, 10:00 a.m. Darien Town Hall, Room 206.
  • Fairfield University: Saturday October 24, members of MFT3 will be panelists for a discussion regarding Domestic Violence.
  • “Hit Me On Your Cell”: Thursday, December 3, 9-7pm, Saxe Middle School, New Canaan, CT. Several town DV task forces join with the DVCC to present a program focusing on teen digital abuse. John Seigenthaler of Weston will be the moderator. In addition, teens are working on a short video illustrating what the students have seen, heard, or experienced concerning this issue.

And the list goes on. Please feel free to contact MFT3 by e-mail or by phone at 203-416-6008 as our clinicians are trained to respond in a sensitive and confidential way to any of your questions.

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Thank you, Monroe!

Monday, September 28th, 2009

MFT3 was privileged to be a part of the 4th Annual Monroe Wellness Fair this past Saturday. We met many local services and companies, and answered many questions as to exactly what is “marriage and family therapy”?

We look forward to serving residents from Monroe and all of the surrounding towns. Thank you for your warm welcome.

Katherine and Virginia manning the table

Katherine and Virginia manning the table

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MFT3 at Monroe Wellness Fair

Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009

The town of Monroe will host its fourth annual Wellness Fair on Saturday, Sept. 26, from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m., at Masuk High School.

Please stop by the MFT3 table and learn more about mental health, the services we provide, and just to put a friendly face to what may seem like a scary thing to do, meet with a therapist.

We look forward to seeing you there!

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Introducing: Laura Petiford, LMFT

Tuesday, September 22nd, 2009

MFT3 is pleased and proud to announce the signing of our newest associate, Laura Petiford, LMFT.

Laura Petiford

Laura joins MFT3 as a part-time practitioner. With several years experience at Hall-Brooke, she brings a depth and diversity to our practice with specialty in addiction and how it affects the family, codependency, depression, anxiety and trauma.

Please read Laura’s profile on our website, and join us in welcoming her to Trumbull and MFT3.

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Lazy Days of Summer

Tuesday, August 11th, 2009

What can we say about the last weeks of summer as everyone is adjusting to the new fiscal year, beginning to think about the fast approaching school year, and possibly even getting started on their holiday shopping?!!! It often feels like it’s over before it’s even begun. How do we remind ourselves, heck, even force ourselves to SLOW DOWN. Vacations become something to recover from when you return because they were packed with activities, not to mention the ten loads of laundry and pile of mail awaiting you at home. The sports, dance, art, music lessons and practices begin to fill up our afternoons, our evenings, our weekends. All of these are important contributions to the versatile lives we lead however there also has to be a point of letting go. Easier said than done, right?

This month, as the August days quickly pass, we at MFT3 encourage you and challenge you to examine your expectations of yourselves, your partners, and your children. Make a list of things that you can let go of, even if just for one week, one night, one hour. If you have to eat cold sandwiches or throw together a salad for dinner so that you can hang out on a blanket on the front lawn and have an impromptu picnic with your family, do that. If you have to leave the laundry for another day in order to take a walk after dinner with your spouse, do that too. Play a game rather than check your iPhone or blackberry for the hundredth time today. Take a bath rather than taking another hour to work from home. Listen to the laughter of your children, the sound of the stillness after everyone is settled for the night, or the wisdom of your grandparent who is surprised to hear from you unexpectedly.

These are all simple and natural remedies for the anxiety that we begin to carry around as a result of having unrealistic expectations of ourselves. This is also an anxiety that we can transmit to our children, our employees, and others in our lives that follow our lead. Once it’s time to gear up again, you can always be proactive and prepared so that you set the pace. Stay tuned to our blog for suggestions on how to enter the responsibilities ahead with a balanced approach and a planful state of mind.

Of course if these are issues that you struggle to get a handle on, we at MFT3 are happy to provide our assistance in managing the anxiety in your household or to establish structure that allows for each person’s needs to be met.

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